The Affair

I was telling my husband this story earlier. I know a girl, well, I don't KNOW her because I met her in the elevator but she let out her soul today. She met someone at work. She said he is funny and handsome and everything she thought she wanted in a man. I say thought because as the old saying goes, we always think the grass is greener on the other side. She really likes him and she said she has been mentally involved with him. She is married. She proceeded to tell me that her husband travels for work and when he is in town he works long hours. Really? Do I look like a therapist? Hello...I don't even know this chick. (Sigh) So, I tell her that she is still having an affair. Even if it is just mental or emotional its still an affair. She is still "cheating" on her spouse. I told her if she is unhappy then she knows what she needs to do. She thanked me and got out of the elevator. Whew! It was a lot information from the 13th floor to the first floor. I hope I never have to do that again! Anyway, the point is that we take vows when we get married and we need to honor those vows. Flirting and other emotional behavior is not acceptable when you're married. Don't do it. Don't get caught up in that hot mess. The grass is NEVER greener on the other side! Geesh.

Until next time....don't get stuck in an elevator!